Deborah Wessling - Home Sweet Home

Step 7. Set Boundaries

If you live with other people, name the space out loud. Tell your partner, your kids, or your roommates what the corner is for and when you'll be using it. Most households respect a stated rule once they understand it. For families with young children, locate the sanctuary somewhere that's not within easy reach (a bedroom corner with the door closed, a screened porch, a bench in the garage workshop) and time your sessions for naps, school hours, or the early morning. A few practical decisions reinforce the boundary: keep your phone face down or in another room, leave work materials outside the corner entirely, and don't let the space turn into a catch-all when guests arrive.

Step 8. Use It Daily

The sanctuary only works if you sit in it. Five minutes a day is enough to start. Pick a consistent time (morning coffee, the lull after lunch, the half hour before bed) and anchor the new ritual to a habit you already have. A short reading block, a few stretches, a journal entry, a single song listened to in full. The habit is what gives the space its value. If the routine slips, scale down rather than abandoning it. Two minutes today is better than waiting for a perfect free hour that never arrives. The whole point of carving out the corner was to make rest available on the days when it's hardest to find.

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